I don't mind talking to people on a real level at all but I don't know what it is about me that is so inviting for a deep ass conversation. For example if the squad goes out drinking, always get the "Broo... I fucking love you man.. we're like fucking brothers man..!" I don't come across as that inviting when it comes to this stuff but it happens. What makes YOU comfortable enough to open up to someone on a real level?
Most Helpful Girl
I have no issues opening up to anybody (but my parents cause last time I did they grounded me 😐). Apart from my parents Im super comfortable talking about myself, or my past or stupid shit I've done, horrible things I've been through or done I can talk about anything. I think its because I don't really give a shit if they judge me, its just kind of my way of finding whether they accept me for me or not instead of gradually building up that trust, only to find out later that they don't feel comfortable anymore about some things about me in the past or they feel like I should've told them sooner. Fuck that. But of course only my closest friends know my absolute secrets. 💁🏽 Gotta keep some kind of mystery.1
Most Helpful Guy
I don't open up often. There's a lot of darkness in my mind. Generally I'm either swapping stories with another veteran or law enforcement officer. It's hard to tell someone about how you had to let a guy a burn to death because you can't get the power shut off, or how it felt picking up pieces of people.
What follows is not my story. https://storycorps.org/listen/travis-williams/0