I'm curious what you ladies think. And guys do you also feel this way?
Most Helpful Girl
Some people feel a really strong connection to one gender. One of my girlfriends was adamant she only wanted boys and luckily she's had 3, I don't know how she'd go if she did have a girl.
I think it's ok to have a preference as long as it's understood that may not happen1
Most Helpful Guy
When I was younger I wanted sons. Recently like this year the idea of having a daughter has grown on me. Especially seeing my best friends kids. The relationship is just different. I mostly wanted sons, because I feel more qualified to raise a boy. But at this point i'd be fine with either. I do want my first child to be a son, so if I do have a daughter she will have an older brother to look after her. I'm a middle child myself, with an older sister and younger brother. So i'm used to that dynamic.2