Like, do you cut yourself some slack when things go wrong, or is there a voice in your head always going "that was a stupid thing to say!" and "stop being so lazy and useless!" and stuff like that?
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Most Helpful Guy
I used to be a lot harder on myself but I've found peace with myself. I pretty much figured out that further disabling yourself serves nobody. It doesn't make anything better, it doesn't achieve anything at all. You should defend yourself, it's for others to try and knock us down. We don't need to help them do it.
We were not put on this earth to be all things to all people, or to be approved of. We each have equal right to be here.1
Most Helpful Girl
So mean :( lol I'm a perfectionist so im always think it can and should be better, last week I was drawing for 10 hours straight with taking only a half hour break in between, and even though my arm was hurting a lot, i just forced myself to keep going, cause i had to hand it in before midnight, and i wasn't happy with the way it looked. (handed it in 3 minutes before midnight and still wasn't that happy with how it looked, cause it couldve been better). Also if someone i talk to is angry (if its at me, an object or whatever) i always feel like im the one doing things wrong, and after the conversation i always blame myself "cause i mustve said or done something wrong" if its true or not... Im really mean to myself lol, but im really nice to other people though =D So i guess that kinda makes up for it.1
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