Clingy girl who has a tremendous CRUSH on me wants to move to live with me?

I am not attracted to her and i don't see her more than a friend, why she is not understanding that? she thinks i like her just because i am nice person :/


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Have you (with no room for misinterpretation) told her that you're not interested? Or in trying to be nice does she think there may be a chance?

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    • 11d

      No because it happened over a text message, just because i am being myself she thinks i like her.. :/

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    • 10d

      Telling her you just want to be friends might help, she may not want to be friends at all if you're cold to her

    • 10d

      I can't find a nicer way to put it ( but she is not even friend material) :(

What Girls Said 2

  • You should tell her you don't have feeling for her. Be nice about it though.

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    • 11d

      Give me a nice line lol

    • 11d

      Well when she goes on to say she wants to move in. Just say you really value her friendship but you are not ready for her to move in.

    • 11d

      And emphasize the word friends haha. Hopefully she will get the hint.

  • some girls/guys don't understand the subtle clues that someone isn't interested. i suggest telling her (in a respectful yet firm way) that you are not interested at all. don't try to sugar coat it with "oh i think you're a great person", because she may misinterpret it. simply lay out the fact that you don't have feelings for her and wish her the best.

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    • 11d

      I shouldn't friendzone her either?

What Guys Said 3

  • She is not understanding it, most likely, because - in the interest of being nice - you have not told her (in unmistakable terms) that you are not interested. The kindest thing you can do for her is to be completely candid and honest.

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  • don't waste this chance man , finding someone that loves you is harder than finding someone attractive.

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    • 11d

      Dude, if you aren't physically attracted to someone you can't be with them.

  • Be direct but not harsh

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    • 11d

      Give me a line?

    • 11d

      "You're awesome and I wish you the best, but I see like a sister."

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