I always feel stressed out and read into things too much. I've liked people in the past and they've rejected me, so I'm scared that if I like this new person they'll just reject me too. And then I feel like I'm not good enough, it always feels like I'm not good enough for anyone. How do I stop this terrible feeling, and make it go away please?
Most Helpful Guy
I think the problem occurs because we want to make our life perfect. Nobody wants to have rejection history in their life. Just for a moment forget about your past and approach the new person.1
Most Helpful Girl
Agreed! I have no idea how to stop it - if you find out please let me know.
To me it helps a bit to interact with the person and to be less awkward, but Im still butterfly-ish all the time and can't concentrate on anything.1