People keep telling that self love is everything , that if you really love yourself you would be independent enough to let go of anything that don't serve you well, is that true?
Most Helpful Guy
Self love = narcissism so yeah, in a sense, nothing will matter to you if you only love yourself
Most Helpful Girl
I think it is true to a certain extent because you are more comfortable with who you are and therefore don't need other people's (implicit) approval on what you chose to do, say or how you behave. So, considering this it might be a bit easier for you to let go of people you don't feel have a positive influence on you.
But on the other hand, I think that is not as simple as what you described. You sure are more confident when you love yourself but your connection to external matters will always be there. By "connections" I mean several things, like your attachment to some people, some habits etc. Loving yourself doesn't create indifference towards all that. These things would still matter and letting go of them wouldn't be an effortless thing.0