Why Don't Guys Like Talking On the Phone?

I have been dating this guy for four months now. He told me when we first started talking that he "is not a phone person" but he managed to call me at least once a day everyday. The past couple of months he will call once a week. Last week I got upset and told him how it made me feel when he doesn't call as often and I noticed that he was starting to make improvements, however he called me on Sunday and I didn't answer. He left a message telling me to call him back when I got the chance. I called him back a couple of hours later and left a message and it is now Tuesday with no call back. What's the deal? I know he is super busy with school and work but c'mon! What's up with guys and the phone?


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  • You use the term "guys" loosely, I myself LOVE talking on the phone with my girlfriend. I spend hours everyday waiting for her to call me after she gets off work or home from school. I don't have a texting plan so all I do is call her and hang out with her. A lot of guys don't like talking on the phone because they think its more of a "girl" thing I suppose (ive asked a lot of my buds and that's what most of em reply with).

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      Thanks for your answer. And I do realize that there are some guys that like talking on the phone I'm just saying the "majority." :-)

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      Hehe thank you :)