say, you didn't have money for the week and you didn't have food for lunch to go to work. and the girl you are seeing makes sure you have any and everything you need, would you see her as a geniune person who cares for you ? or is she trying to buy your affection ?
depends on if the guy is a jerk or not. If the guy is genuine then he will see it as genuine. If he is a tool that would buy affection from a female then he would see it as that from you. Perspective is in the eye of the beholder.