i live in a place where there are staff there to help us with problems if we have any..
there a member of staff who is about my age 23 and when I talk to her she looks at me like she's interested I think .and the other day she didn't ask me to move she just brushed past me and said oh sorry so I'm a bit confused... thanks
Chances are you could be over thinking this. Most girls have a way of looking at guys and smiling that will come off as flirting when we really aren't. What I would suggest is, you try to hold more conversations with her, ask her about her weekend and stuff (nothing too personal!)... If she is very accommodating of your questions you could take a shot at asking her out..
1.) She is a girl and sometimes women just enjoy being nice and flirtatious for a multitude of reasons. It can often be mistaken as interest by the other person
2.) She is part of the staff--it is her duty to be nice to you because she is trying to maintain a professional image. Ever hear the old saying, don't mix business with pleasure? This one pertains to that.
3.) There could be a possibility that she IS interested. The only way you would know is if you make the effort to flirt with her a bit too. Just make sure you have better evidence of her interest to go off on before you make such a move
Guy asks me out. I say no as I'm not interested in dating anyone atm. They misinterpret all these things I do by reading too much into them. They ask me out again based upon their interpretations and I say no again as in my mind nothing has changed. I'm called a bitch for "leading them on" when in my mind I didn't flirt or do anything intentionally to indicate interest.
A lot of guys mistake being nice for flirtation. Don't make that mistake.
Based on what you said she looks at you when she talks to you and bumped in to you when she walked past.