Why is it that the ony way a girl can be "cool" these days is if she...
has her hair dyed a bright color
plays an instrument (like the drums or guitar or sometin)
is a gamer
wears no makeup but if she does it goes along with her badass look
I always hear guys saying this is their dream girl these days. why do guys only consider these girls to be "cool" and ignore other girls who fall out of the catigory?
what about a girl who is unique, funny, smart, athletic, not afraid to speak her mind, enjoys deep conversations etc?, and why are they not considered cool anymore?
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Most Helpful Opinion
i guess you are taking it too seriously. everyone has a different personality traits. I personally look very shy and conservative but in reality I am very outgoing, am very friendly, I love whiskey(I am told not many girls enjoy it), I love playing video games. but at the same time I am very intellectual and love deep covos. so I have diverse personality traits and my boyfriend says he hates me for this because he find me very confusing... but other people like me... so it depends entirely on person to person.
What Guys Said 1
a girl who is unique, funny, smart, athletic, not afraid to speak her mind, enjoys deep conversations etc
is cool indeed since not many girls are like that.
What Girls Said 2
I am one of these girls. Not because of the trend but because slowly over time it just happened. I don't believe I get a lot of attention because of my looks. I dye my hair because I like being different, I like video games because I grew up with them and I wear no make up because I don't sew the need to hide behind it. My clothing suits my body and skin tones and I like heavy rock because its what I grew up with. I can't help who I am. I like me this way and a lot of the time I get the attention I do, because I am confident. Simple. I think you will find it isn't the look of someone that draws attention it is how well they pull it off.