Ok long story short, there is this girl that I met a long time ago, I like her, but she is like weird, shy and likes to play hard to get and which made it very difficult for me to talk to her. At the end I think she likes me because she likes to stare at me and she has actually physically move to be closer to me.
Anyhow I added her but she didn't accept me and I couldn't write her a message because of the settings. But a couples of day ago, that feature is now open! so I can finally send her a message. It has been a while, but I like her too much so I haven't forget her, so I want to talk to her.
Well maybe if you're in the same school say hey and ask for some notes from one of your classes,even if you don't need them its a good way to start a convo like OK thx for the notes, how are you by the way?
do you know where she lives (town) try to run into her and see if you can talk to her in person first, or at least make eye contact see if she reacts to seeing u
then Facebook her like hey it was great running into you today, how are u? I miss the old times...
break the ice with her in person. When you are sure she acknowledges your existence positively, proceed to message her online. When you see how the conversation is flowing, then pop in your info about liking her.
If other people are writing the message for you then you are sort of being fake.
You should make it up yourself.
Will you need us to help you put the condom on also?
How about organising a party, dinner, or going to a gig with two or three of your friends (try to invite at least one other girl!) and inviting her? This way you can perhaps get to know her better without it sounding like a date? And since you don't know each other well it's a good way to avoid awkward silences :)