Why is it that I am so in to older women? Any ideas???

Like, if I met a 40 year old who was really attractive and interesting and was interested in me, I would totally date her, despite being in my early 20's.


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  • I don't think it's abnormal, it's very common indeed. Perhaps less so if you're exclusively or particularly attracted to older women, but even then it's not a problem. As for the reason.. could be you are subconsciously seeking mothering/care-taking, either because of feeling emotionally immature and vulnerable, or perhaps because your own past experiences of being mothered were inadequate (or even over-bearing). If you have trouble hitting it off with girls your age, it could be as simple as finding that older women are more responsive and forgiving towards you, which reinforces the attraction. It could be more a sexual thing - as with a fetish, some kind of past experience or association which has caused your mind to equate older women with arousal.

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What Girls Said 9

  • It's normal. Not weired

  • You like what you like

    Nothing wrong with that

  • you want to be taken care of? you like saggy boobs? idk

    • The same thing can be said about girls who like men in their 40's, they want to be taking care of. Maybe some like saggy balls lol.

  • That's your preference. That's all I'd take from it.

  • idk why for you but I like hooking up with older men becasue they believe in privacy

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What Guys Said 2

  • I don't think its a problem. Pretty common actually.

  • Older women don't f*** around like chicks in their 20s do... I don't blame you man.