How do I see him again?!

Met a lovely guy in a bar but didn't exchange contact details for lack of a better word that we were both gutless.How or what can I do to see him again? I know chances are slim


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  • You can go to the same bar at the same time and the same day to see if he shows up. If I was interested that's what I would do in hopes you would show up. You can even go to the bar and ask the bartender if he knows him. Leave your first name and number with the bartender in case he shows up if he returns some other time.If he shows up, the first thing is exchange didgets. LolGood luck

    • Aw that's sweet thanks :-)

    • Hey - stranger things have happened. if it is meant to be you will find each other...

    • Thanks but its too good to be true

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What Guys Said 4

  • Just go back to the bar a couple times. Chances are that he'll be back.

    • Ok thanks :)

    • Close together. If you don't run into him in the next few weeks, chances will be bleak.

    • Couple of times close together? Or apart?

  • Try going back to the bar and asking the bartender about him. Maybe he is a regular. Bartenders know everything.

  • i would revisit that bar the same day of the week at the same time of day/nite hoping he's a regular at that bar...that imo is your best shot to reunite with him.Best of luck, and I hope you learned your lesson about always getting contact info.

  • Do you know his last name or have mutual friends? Maybe you can find him on Facebook. Also, Craigslist has a "missed connections" section.

    • Nope no nothing haha! Don't know whether to laugh or cry!

What Girls Said 1

  • I know how you must feel. Don't give up, no matter how slim your chances are!3 Months ago I talked to a guy on Chatroulette till our connection got disconnected, sadly. All I was left with was his first name and the city he lived in. 5 weeks and a LOT of effort later I found him :-)I hope this gives you a better feeling! You got it easy in comparison to me! Don't just go to the bar on the same day and time as when you met, hang out there more often :)

    • We're going through a rough patch but we're working on it :)Oh okay, still I don't think your chances are that slim! If you happen to see him again, let me know :) Good luck girl :)

    • Ah OK sorry to hear that, hope it can work out somehow.Yes very big city, will try the bar again hoping he's there :-) Thank you

    • My story is actually way more complicated, we haven't even been together since we live in different countries but yes, we still keep in touch. I'm not sure how long this is gonna last though - as I said: complicated...(a lot of heartbreak involved on my part)You don't need to know his name, just show up at this bar frequently and if it's meant to be it's gonna happen, don't you worry :) Is the city you live in big?

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