right, my partner, love him to bits yeah, but.. he never accepts responsibility, and never see's himself doing anything wrong, he just goes, what have I done wrong? I Haven't done anything etc? he doesn't see what he does and that, he thinks he's something perfect? WHAT THE HELL.
First explain what he did was wrong and why? But honestly if a man is going to be a man in a relationship I don't believe you should do that in every case, there has to be a sense of self accountability somewhere in his being. But honestly some of us don't because some of us haven't been raised in homes where that's taught(not saying that's the case in your situation). What makes a man a man is him coming to the realization that responsibility is priority...Meaning even if its not his fault he sometimes has to take the blame, because every time we blame the girl her worth and beauty diminishes in our eyes.. Take a step back and observe his behavior, does he clean up behind himself, how does he respond to the authority in his life (mom/dad/boss,etc.) and see if responsibility is his priority.
if you don't tell him what he has done wrong. How would he know? It is your responsibility to tell someone when they offend you. It is not that person's responsibility to censor their actions feeling and thoughts if they don't know they hurt you. Tell him what he did wrong. Don't get upset when he doesn't know. because even though some times it would be nice to have a mnetal connection with your partner(sometimes...) It isn't currently possible.
My ex was the same way.She blamed me for every thing I got to where I ignored her when she tried to start a fight. then she tipped my 60" flat screen off my gaming center. Right in front of my friends said I did it with the remote changing channel's. She never accepted doing anything wrong.I am pretty laid back guy it's really freaking hard to make me mad. She tried everything to to piss me off. I ditched her because she was loser. She is 43
You literally just ranted about nothing. What did he do wrong? You're really expecting us to go "you go girl! Stick it to the man!" without even having a clue about what the dude did? This question makes you sound spoiled out of this world.
Your obviously dating a spineless dork who can't admit being wrong because he's got this impression that he's head is so far up his own ass, nobody would dream of noticing he's an ass whos sh*t stinks like everyone elses, but hey, your dating him, so I feel for you, you should demand more for yourself,x
If I don't take responsibility for something, it's probably because I wasn't wrong