I don't dress like a skank, in fact I dress pretty tomboyish and I am overweight and I wear baggy clothes and pants. And when I do dress nice I am covered up and I do not wear tight pants.
I am getting really annoyed by this. Today I got off the bus, and I am walking on the sidewalk and all of a sudden this fat guy in his car I think was trying to ask me out, I just ignored him though.
Also a decent looking guy on the train gave me his number and I am flattered that a decent fit guy did but he was not my type and he was some random guy on the train so I waited until he got off and I threw away his number on the train floor, this other guy saw me do it too.
Also why do more men try to talk to me when I am single and not even focused on trying to date anyone right now?
idk...i'm sorry about the guy in the car :/ a few years ago, these guys in my neighborhood would follow me whenever I was walking home from the train station. saying really stupid sh*t to me the whole time and laughing amongst themselves too. I don't know why but one guy alone = gentleman. you have more than one congregating in a small area and all of sudden, they all turn into pigs.
ok ... from a car ... that's just ... no I don't even have words for that ...
but about being talked to ... well we don't have the magic ability to read your mind and know when you are not looking for a date ... it takes some courage (or even some more for some of us) but sometimes, we simply talk to you, and give you a telephone number or ask for yours ...
that's just part of the game ... and that's hard enough ... please don't expect us to learn mind reading ...
if you are not interested, that might be a hard moment for a guy, but don't be afraid to say "sorry, I'm not looking for a date right now ..."
if you are talked to, that only means you are aproachable and attractive