I just text a guy that I have been seeing last night to let him know that I wanted to spend the night with him but I understood he had plans. Mind you we have been seeing each other for months and are very clear on where we stand. This is definitely not a bootie call lol... I was just wondering if a girl that you are really interested in text you that would you feel secure, loved, good or would that be a turn off? I feel like I may have made it looked like I was interested in sex but really I wanted to hang out and maybe end the night at his place. What do you think? What does spending the night really mean to you?
What does spending the night really mean to you?
What Guys Said 2
well, if I was interested, I definitely wouldn't feel turned off is he wanted to spend the night. But I suppose that depends if there's a reason for a guy be turned off (maybe some kind of insecurity like you implied).
But yeah, if a girl jsut said "I want to spend the night", I'd think she's referring to focusing on sex, even if subconsciously. If you wanted to make it seem like you wanted to hang out and end the night at his place (sex or no sex included), I'd think a more "appropriate" proposition would be to just say you wanna hang out for the night.
Essentially, a girl wanting to "spend the night" means sex.
Ey man, its all about self control. Make it clear, your intentions...
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