I'm a bossy girl and you're right guys do completly worship mean bossy girls. I think only certain guys are attracted to girls with that type of attitude. Look at the guys posting here, none of them are attracted to that type of girl. You shouldn't ever change your ways to be with a guy. Just be yourself. Like I said I'm bossy and the guys I date seem to like my bossiness, but I'm not mean. They seem to understand that its my street and they should just stay in their lane. I get what I want because I work for it and I'm not willing to settle for anything that is below my standards. I do send back food when dining and I will talk to a manager if things are unacceptable. I won't freak out or be mean to anyone but I get what I want because of my professional demeanor.
Last year I received an extra pair of eye glasses and the employees know me by name. I get priority treatment and the employees learned about exemplary customer service. Someone was going to be fired, but I told the corporate office that I didn't want the staff turned over, but for them to figure out how to accomodate my needs. I am bossy and don't apologize for it, you are a sweet girl and shouldn't apologize for that either. You can only be who you are.
I only give you one word of advice, don't let people mistreat you and you must stand up for yourself. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. Know what you stand for. KRL