He says he loves her but is not in love with her.I have been seeing him for 8 months and wen I met him she had moved out of his house but had her things still there.Now she has slowly moved her stuff out and he tells me she knows he is with me but he just wanted her to move on with his help as she was so dependent on him when they were together.She lives 2 hours away from him now and he allows her to come visit when she has problems.Such as how to do her tax or save money blah blah.But she tells him she wants him back and still is in love with him. When she visits she stays the night but he tells me he sleeps on the couch. I never hear from him when she is around. He says I am to trust him and that she is just a friend.If I say anything about the situation he won't talk to me for days cause he says he doesn't need my jealousy. He then says that I can't stake claims on him cause it will make him back off. I really care for him and when we are together we have so much closeness and fun... Show More
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Im sorry honey but to me there is something more going on. You should be his number one priority but frankly she is. He needs to let go of her which it doesn't sound like he is willing to do. You must be assertive and refuse to be treated like second best. He is stepping way over the line with her and putting you on the back burner. The fact that he doesn't answer the phone to you among many other things you say he does tells me he is cheating. I'm sorry but if that wasn't true he would be more willing to ease your mind and let you be around with her there etc etc. If your the type that needs proof to know for sure he is cheating then get it and move on. You deserve to be put first and to be cherished by who your with. Sit him down and tell him this must stop occasionally phone calls from her okay maybe but the visits etc etc must stop or your gone. I have a feeling he will let you go. Him cutting you off when you even question him isn't right. Good Luck and be strong...