I think the matter of settling is a decision based on fear of not getting any better, or fear of comitting, or fear of admitting that the one they really love is out there. either one, it si just fear that makes us settle, as you put it. I believe firmly that there is a thing called true love and maybe that it doesn't exist that often is because we don't know what to look for. Its like the wind, just because you may not see it, you see the effects of it, and you can feel it. but not if you say, I'll settle with whatever you got. Its all a matter of fear, selfrespect and faith. But true love is out there, to anyone who dares trying to find it, and believes that he or she will in the end. Some people say that 'no, I can't get things like that, only some people do', and that's true. Only some people dares to got after hat they want, and those are the ones who get it. This is thatsame. You want true love? Go and get it!