How can you love someone so much and have no connection with them?

That's what my boyfriend said when he broke up with me. It was 2 days after our 1 year anniversary. I was over there the day before he broke up with me and we had a good time. I've asked a lot of people and they don't understand either.

His dad has told me that he still cares. But whenever I see him he seems fine. Is there any way I can tell if he still cares about me?
I've seen him twice today. He smiled at me and said hi. The second time he actually talked to me. I'm beginning to wonder if he wants to get back together?
Should I stop calling him? Should I let him try to talk to me? Almost every time I talk to him I cry afterward because I miss him so much. What should I do?
I logged on to Facebook last night and seen his relationship status has changed. I called his house to talk to him and find out if it was true. His dad answered the phone and said he didn't know he was with someone (He's the one who's been telling me not
to give up. He told me to calm down and he'd find out and let me know. So he asked my exs mom and she said that he wasn't. I don't know who or what to believe. It's only been about 2.5 weeks since he broke up with me.

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  • Basically he said that he loved you but felt no connection with you.It means he feels that you don't understand him and you are not emotionally connected to him. You need to express your feelings and be emotioanlly intimate.

    • Then express your feelings when you talk to him. It is better to go all out. Tell him that you want to be back with him and that you both can try to make it work.Dont cry and get emotional.If it still does not work out, then walk away and never look back. After your final effort, be preapared to just remove him from your life if he does not respond. But, it has to be a final try.

    • Funny you should say that because that's exactly how I feel.

    • Think about your feelings for him. Make sure that the flollowing feelings are intact:1. You want him back as your lover2. You can not stand it if another girl shows interest in him3.You want him to love you and want you madly4. He will not be able to stand it if aqnother guy shows interest in youIt does not matter how complicated you both are. Don't try to understand him. Don't expect him to understand you. ALl that will come later. Currently focus on romance and sex.

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