I can't get over my ex boyfriend
I WANT to get over him so badly.
he wasn't the right kind of guy for me...Is that why I can't get over him? Because he was what I couldn't have?
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
i know what your talking about completely
we dated for a while
and the things he would tell me were irresistable
i keep looking at his pictures over and over
and I listen to his voice clips
and watch the videos he made for me
and I know we are as perfect as perfect can get
so I kept trying to talk to him and he full out gave me the silent treatment.
he deleted me on EVERYTHING
and I was so down-in-the-dumps
practically wasting away
i didn't know, one person could have such a powerful grip on me
but then 4 months later
he adds me again
and msgs me
and lies that his little sister deleted me
but I'm glad he remembered my email and is talking to me
i guess he realized how much I loved him and how much he missed me
we are slowly talking about
LOVE TAKES TIME
im not even exageratting
your not over him. becasue ou were compatible. and there was something about him that made you want more. that's why
and I know EXACTLY what you are experiancing
send him 1 very deep message
if he doesn't reply, FORGET him okay
in a couple months
he will GET BACK to you
becasue he will miss you
and your laugh. or whatever he loved about you
dont worry hun
were on the same boat
What Guys Said 2
Chances are you have a hard time because even if he wasn't right, on some level it was great for a while. What you have to remember are the reasons you split. It sounds like you're not getting out and seeing anyone new yet or you would be able to tell that you get over it faster if you don't have so much time to think about the past.
If you broke up recently, the first thing you need to do is cut him as completely from your life as humanly possible. If you don't, and try to be like friends or something right away, you will only doom yourself to more suffering. Cut him out.
From then on, you have to find ways to occupy your time the best you can. Do some things with your closest friends if you haven't done anything together for awhile. Realize that whoever this guy was, and as good as he was, he was not the type for you, and you deserve better.
Most essentially, give it time. Your feelings for him will naturally become victims of the passing of time. And remember, there are quite literally billions of guys out there, and for a 17-year old, you have oodles of time to find the right one.
What Girls Said 3
Im sorry if I haven't seen your msg earlier :(! I just got an email
i know you want to get over him! SO did I! and your obviously not over him because your emotionally attatched to the feeling of love that he gave to you. I was like that too, and I can't believe what's going on with me..AGAIN.. my ex is back to calling me and all his best friends love me :) things are going..great! If you feel he isn't the right kind of guy, than how come your not over him? I think if he really wasn't right for you, youd completely forget about him, but there's something hopeful about him. I hope e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g goes well with you! I wish you GOOD LUCK! :) I know everything will work out eventually <3
-Christina Gomes :)
It could be a little bit about wanting what you can't have, but how much time has passed? you can't have unrealistic expectations about how long it will take. and how long were you together? that plays a factor too. even if he wasn't the right kind of guy for you, if you loved him and if you were in a long term relationship with him, there may always be a part of you that remembers those feelings as good feelings. that's ok. that doesn't mean you're not over him, it just means you cared about what you once had.