I went thru. my boyfriend's phone (I know I shouldn't have but it is what it is. I know it's an invasion of privacy but I realize I messed up. I am human and humans make mistakes.) and I saw that a girl texted him "Hey love, I miss you. Call me boo :)". I told him that I went thru. his phone to show him a text that I sent him to cover up. He show me that he loves me but that text got me very upset. I confronted him and told him that I didn't like the fact that she texted him this, his sent messages were erased so I couldn't see what he responded. He said he was very sorry that this girl had told he before that she love him but he doesn't feel a thing for her. I believed him but was very angry in the moment and I took off. When I got home I wrote as a facebook status: "Words are meaningless.Actions are what really matter". I knew he would see it. He texted me if I got home. I texted him "Yes, God is on my side. He would never let me down". He never responded. I woke up and called him he didn't pick up. I then texted him saying I wanted to put this in the past because I really do love him and he didn't respond. I went to his facebook and he deleted his account (I still have his family on there). I decided to go to his house to make it all better; yes I know it was crazy to just show up. I called him and texted him while I was at his house and he never responded. In my last text I told him "Don't leave me in the dark. Please let me know what's going on." I know my boyfriend and I am pretty sure he woke up after I called him a few times. I don't want his silence to leave me clueless. Today is his birthday and we were suppose to go out for breakfast at 730am because I start work 9am. Its know past 730am and no call. I know he usually would call. After I left his house we did kiss and say I love you to each other. My cousin told me that maybe he deleted his facebook page because he doesn't like people saying happy birthday to him since it's his bday. I want to believe that but at the same time I feel like it may be over for good. I already called and texted him and even showed up without him coming outside. Do you think it's over? I had to confront him because I did want to know what is going on. Did I do wrong? Please help :(
I am not sure if my current boyfriend broke up with me but I am going to say he did. PLEASE HELP! Very sad:(?
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You need to dump him. He's cheating on you, believe me from personal experience. I've done the same thing. He deleted his outbox, got a text like that from another girl, ignores you, and is seeming distant. There is another woman in his life, and you can choose to believe me or not but I am 100 percent positive that he isn't being truthful or loyal. I'm warning you, you're going to get hurt.0
The way you make it sound it seems like you two are in a tough spot. The invasion of privacy wasn't good but a lot of People do that. He tried to make it all better but you responded with those messages in a bad way. A lot of wOmen like to extend the truth. Hopefully your not but long story short it shouldn't be over just a little spat is all. Give him space and it will work out :) good luck hope I helped0
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