My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months ...and the trouble I'm having is... when he spends the night with me, he gets up and he says "See ya later"... I wish that he would give me a detailed answer...like. "Honey, I'll see you around noon...If I can't do that, I'll call you." (sounds... Show More
Why is my boyfriend so disrespectful, but yet he loves me?
What Guys Said
The solution for this is a tall order & involved breaking some bad habits.
If you both love each other, even this problem can be hurtled.
>There must be a time & place that you meet, be it once a month, week, day, whatever. This must be designed so that other events that might interfere are at bay; e.g. Sundays noon-10pm are considered free from business & other distractions, many nights are not planned ...
> There is some mystique to meeting on the fly, so what's wrong with getting a general rendezvous time, then tying it down by cell phone later?
> Being so self-centered as to not attempt to make contact in these simple ways = not relationship material on either side, NOT to mention NO animal/emotional attraction to the other e.g. "you are the air I need to breathe". Such overnight meetings then may be judged as less than romantic is this is truly the case. Being a big man/stud, free as a bird = not about you (& vice versa).
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