Well I just turn 24 about to graduate college, never been laid(long story) been played by women, lonely, all my roommates have girlfriends that live...
Well I just turn 24 about to graduate college, never been laid(long story) been played by women, lonely, all my roommates have girlfriends that live with them and to be quiet honest I getting a little desperate. I don't want to try online dating because I know for fact you can't guarantee true love. what does it take for me to find a girlfriend? I can't be patient because more I wait the more desperate I feel. I need answers from the ladies since they seem to know what women want.
Well just be confident around her and treat girls properly and there is no reason why you won't eventually get a girlfriend. But it pays to be patient, you will find someone eventually. Its better to wait and find true love than rush into things and have a relationship based on fantasy.
Be outgoing, flirt and have fun. Eventually that will draw in the girls to you. Don't care about finding "the one" right now. If you really feel desperate just ask the nearest girl that you find attractive out on a date. If she turns you down shrug it off and move onto the next one. YOU need to take the initiative to ask her out. Because half the time she sure as hell won't. Trust me I know how you feel, and online dating isn't TOO bad. You just have to be a little careful. But you're a guy so you don't have too much to worry about with that. Just don't show that you're desperate. It'll make the right girl feel as if you were only with her just because you couldn't get someone else. Be patient, you are still very young. There is plenty of time to find someone. :) Good luck on your search! I'm right there with ya!
Ladies want a guy tht treats them like a china doll, be delicate, make her knees go weak when you come close, show her your love, that's what girls want. try to make some friends that are girls and you will gain the experience to become comfortable.
Just know that you will fail a lot starting out. Don't place unreasonable expectations on finding the "one". Girls in your age group are largely not interested in that anyway (yet). Just date girls even if they are not perfect to you. Just because you date someone doesn't mean they are everything you ever wanted out of a girl. It sounds terrible, but use them as practice. You'll need it if you find a great girl later.
Most women won't approach men or ask them out because they will settle for the men that come to them, even if they are lower value men. Another reason is women tend to be trained by society to not ask men out because they will look desperate or slutty, and it's possible for them to be used by the guy for sex.