he has been extremely over-affectionate since the beginning we are going overseas together for several months soon and it just feels weird we have not said to each other we love each other. I am waiting for him to say it first as I had an unpleasant experience with my ex in the end on the subject so I am little nervous of being rejected if I said it first.
i feel he does love me, just wondering why he hasn't said it we have been together 6 months
why does e have to _say_ it. you feel it, so he IS saying it. not verbally. verbal communication is only 10% of overall communication. don't put so much pressure on yourself& him. its just a bunch of words. people usually say it to shirk off showing it. if you're happy with how you two are acting towards, one another than be glad for that,
hes not your ex, you shouldn't be holding this relationship acountable for a previous one. if he was your ex, you wouldn't be with him, so that's totally irrational.
if you must have it said, say it. otherwise stop worrying about it.
girl, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 14 months and still no "I love you", but we feel good with each other. There have been some stuff we've overcome together, and during those situations we might have not felt fully in love or that we actually LOVED the other. However, I think that for some people it takes a lot of time to be ready or to be aware of the importance of those words. And for the people like us (boyfriend and I), when we say "i love you", there is no second guessing or confusion, and there won't be room for regrets.
I'd say... wait some time for a solid "I love you", instead of the ones that come and go and are easily broken and forgotten. Good things take their time.
I said it to my boyfriend first after four months.
Judging other things we said to each other, I could tell he felt that way toward me, and I knew I felt that way! At first, I was just going to wait on him only because I didn't want him to pressure him into saying it, but I ended up blurting it out anyways. :P
I love you is 3 very big and meaningful words that could ever be said guve him time maybe he will say it or maybe since he is a guy and guys don't like to admit there feelings to girls he is waiting on you to say it first only way to no is to wait and see or take the chance and say it yourself