Do I carry on with him?

Its a very long story but please bear with me because I really need your opinions. I met a Tom at the start of September, he is my flat mates friend... Show More

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  • the ultimatum is preferable through phone, but the stronger effect is FACE 2 FACE. you can give him time to wait perhaps date a little more then let him decide after that. if he still can't make up his mind LEAVE. no its not selfish to ask for a relationship. else your case could bloom into a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS RELATIONSHIP