So my boyfriend wants to stay up a couple hours after I go to bed?

We have been together about a year and have been living together for over 6 months. Tonight he just wants to stay in the living room and stay up while I go to bed. I feel a bit lonely, like he doesn't want to sleep with me. He says its Because he doesn't want to go to bed right away once he gets off work. Am I being to clingy when I go to bed alone and I want him with me while I fall asleep?

How would I approach this, I don't want him to think I am clingy or overwhelm him, what should I do to let him know what is up? Or should I just leave him alone and get over it?


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  • No, you're not being clingy to want that, but he's right about the need to unwind before going to sleep.

    Ask him if he can tuck you into bed and stay next to you a few minutes before he gets back up.

    Compromise is in order here!

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      UPdat3e: Follow my suggestion and compromise on the issue!