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Bad News, Emotional Reactions & Space

My girlfriend and I have a strong relationship built on trust, love, honesty, dedication and compassion. However, we've both had to struggle a lot in... Show More

Most Helpful Opinion

  • She needs time to fix what's emotionally wrong with her. Whether it be meditator or self guidance- time alone to fix something on your own is not your fault or anyone's. she just needs to do this herself. Give her time and let her know you care and when she wants to talk through it with you, she will. A part of being in a relationship is being a team hold her tight, kiss her long and hard, look her in the eyes and tell her you want what's best for her at the time and you love her with all your heart.

What Girls Said 2

  • just keep reasuring her that you will get through it together bu most importantly concentrate on yourself as you don't want your health to get worse worrying about others when your health is at risk

What Guys Said 1

  • Just give her space. Always be there when she needs someone to talk to, and don't bring up the subject often because it will just let the two of you down, spirits will be down, and it will just cause unnecessary thinking in her mind.

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