2 questions for the guys..

Ok here it goes. New here. So I'm fresh dating my guy for a month. I met him and said he wants to get married. in the future. All that. So I get this odd text s saying,"I don't know right know.I asked do you want a commitment? He said IDK. Why he say that? So ,basically. he s saying," I don't want a commitment ". Am I right?...2. Valentine's day he didn't do anything for me. He said," I ll make it up" whole week passes by. I don't get him. Dating only a month. I don't smother the guy. What I do?

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We are talking and he said slow down but would like to get to know each otheer. Still together .
I broke up I don't know he never got back and said he would Couldn't take it. It was wrong.


Most Helpful Guy

  • He sounds Flaky an Wishy Washy, you should move on. Just a Waste of your Time.


What Guys Said 7

  • He still must be pondering if you're the girl whom he sees himself marrying in the near future.

  • Yeah it sounds like he doesn't want a girlfriend or doesn't want to rush into it. Maybe he doesn't realize how important events like Valentine's day is to women. GL to you though!

  • id give it more time a month isn't very long

  • He probably means he wants to get married to someone at some point years down the road and do the entire kids and white picket fence thing... I wouldn't take tongue in cheek conversation like that to mean he wants to marry you. He's just putting it out there to let you know he's shopping for a relationship, not just trying to get into your pants and get onto the next girl (which he might be doing anyway).

  • Sorry to break this to you, but he is not sure about you.

    • You where wrong I said and openeed to him I understand the. Comment by anonymous

    • For once, I am very happy to be wrong. :) take care. My intention was not to misguide you.

    • Now, wish you the very best..

  • He is saying he doesn't know yet if you're the girl he wants to make a serious committment towards. He's only been dating you a month after all.

    He probably hates V-day, like many men. Said he'd make it up to you, but really just hopes you'll forget about it.


What Girls Said 1

  • a month and he's already talking about married? Sounds like this guy just really wants something quick and easy.. and not work for it... these things take time..

    • Oh no meant ...I asked him in the future you want marriage". He said yes.. Then now he says I don't want a commitment and said I don't know.