Do guys actually get scared off when a girl says "I love you" first?
I've been with my boyfriend a few months now. Things have been fantastic, and it feels like we've been together for years. Today I realized that I am...
If possible, I'd prefer the opinion of MALES, not the opinion of FEMALES, particularly scorned females. If I thought a female perspective could answer this question, I wouldn't have needed to ask it because my own perspective is female. Thanks...
Most Helpful Guy
If we've been in a relationship for a few months at least, no it wouldn't scare me.
What Guys Said 4
If I felt the same way about her, I wouldn't be scared off at all, I would be more drawn in. Now, some men may be scared off if you say those 2 little words and they don't feel comfortable with admitting it yet.
Just tell him how you actually feel (like you said with your last sentences). The truth about your love is always better than hiding it and hoping he might knock first.
I'm wondering the same thing,
What Girls Said 2
he should know you well enough by now to know you mean well by it. if has scared he doesn't really want an emotionally rich relationship that's all. not everyone does. some pple just coast along for the attention or sex, then when it is time they leave.
no one who respects feelings gets scared by them. you're not scaring him, you're just exposing that he's not really into it. why should you walk on egg shells or a guy who doesn't care.
ig he cares hell be glad. if he doesn't then why should u.
you need to have honesty and courage to say I love u. courage to gain courage to lose... you don't nee good timing to say I love u.
Yes. It means she wants commitment. And guys fear commitment like the plague.
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