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My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.

I only stopped shoplifting last year after getting caught and being forced to do community service hours, paying a fine and nearly losing my scholarship. I was told that next time is 6 months jail time. My boyfriend and best friend think my mother failed me by not punishing me immediately. I don't recall ever getting tough love from her.

Flashback to 2006:
- That was the very first time I stole something and knew it was wrong. I was then 7 and stole a small tattoo package, candies and cherry lip gloss. I hid them on my jacket and walked away with my mother. After 30-40 minutes, mom was taking me out to eat at Wendy's (my favorite place) and I accidentally took off my jacket. She only gave a small lecture on how it's wrong to steal and just don't do it again.
- I continued stealing things for no reason. In 5th grade, mom got a call from school about me stealing someone's homework, taking it home, and copying from that. Somehow the teacher noticed, even though I only changed some words on my paper. What did mom do? Some lecture on how it wasn't right what I did and nothing else. The topic was forgotten quickly.
- Over the years I would steal and cheat on some exams but got sneakier and didn't get caught anymore until last year.

Since I was young my family never trust me even if I have been a good daughter. I studied hard, graduate honors and even have good jobs.

Since I was young, my family prohibited me going out especially late at night. And, whenever I do they always yelled at me and worst my dad beat me up and have major bruises. I grow very shy person because they never expose me to people.

I never had boyfriend of my entire life due to my family strictness until such time I met foreign man. I know he really loves me but he had an international historical record of stealing money 5 years ago. When my learned about it, they immediately destroyed our relationship and even if I told them not to touch him. They ask cops to arrest him for such crime. They even want to make false accusations such as raping which is not true. But I didn't support to them and that makes them more mad at me.
My innocent best friend was also scolded by my family and they destroyed our friendship.

My family is now getting worse. They grounded me , destroyed my door, steal my computer and cellphone and spying all my messages, I cannot go out at house and making Me like a Maid. They have invaded my personal privacy. Even if I stop meeting my boyfriend, they don't believe in me and worst they want me to stop working. I don't want to stop working because this is only my source of income and to be honest I can really live alone. They already destroyed everything my relationship, friendship and now my work?

If I leave home, my foreign boyfriend dont have anymore money and I am afraid my dad will ask for arrest him or worst kill him. That is why I allowed myself being disrespected by my own family.

If I leave I was also thinking about my boyfriend. What If my family would ask police to arrest or kill him. Especially that he don't have any place to transfer because he don't have money.

What should I do?, please advise