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Question: Do I have a right to be bothered if my wife has a man over to our house while I'm at wok. With the exception of her father or brothers.

My ex-brother-in-law met my wife over 5 years ago. (I was married to his sister who passed 9 years ago.) My new wife was his family's hair dresser. Then became good friends when he divorced. I vaguely remember him mentioning her as he was now single and dating. From my knowledge, of the situation, they never dated just really good friends. I met her about 2 years ago and she was immediately interested in meeting me. She would come to family functions and even went out to the beach 3 hours away to come visit. I was very oblivious for she was my ex-brother-in-law friend. I thought she was coming around for my niece, nephew and my e-b-I-l. Once I learned of her intentions I asked her what the history between them two. She claimed all innocence. I asked him to confirm and he gave me his okay. So we dated and everything developed to what we are now. Married, House and a child on the way. So why does it bother me that he is over right now? Her 5 yr. old daughter is there and my niece as well. I feel as though there is a possibility for everything. Intimate relationships start off innocent. Next thing you know a mistake has been made and you cannot reverse the doing. I'm worried that his horn dog ways and a questionable past (on my part) is avoiding me to trust. My instincts are telling me to be on alert.