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How to seduce a colleague?

I know, I know, relationships and work don't mix. We flirt with each other at work and I know he wants some but I can see his sensible side holding... Show More

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  • First, screw the work/relationship nonsense. There's a difference between a career and a paycheck, one major distinction being paychecks are interchangeable, as long as they don't bounce. A great romance, by contrast, is unique.

    How to get it? The ancient ritual: drinks after work, dinner after drinks.

    After dinner...you'll figure it out.

    • After dinner when going out to the car, just get in the back seat!

What Guys Said 3

  • Relationships and work don't mix? That's exactly why they do mix! It's hot.

    As for how...? If you have to ask, then your prospects don't look too outstanding.

  • You already stated you know this, but you should not be pursuing a colleague! Yes, I just had to say it. :P

    If you really want to pursue something invite him out after work. Start building a friendship outside of work and spending some alone time. A warning though; if he is hesitant to do anything with you outside of work just back off and drop it. You don't want to be the crazy co-worker that is seen as stalking him.

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