How to seduce a colleague?

I know, I know, relationships and work don't mix. We flirt with each other at work and I know he wants some but I can see his sensible side holding back. What if I don't want a relationship? What if I just want a little bit of a fling? Or a friend with benefits? How do I even begin to approach this with him when we have that professional working relationship going on?

I'm not asking whether or not I should, I'm asking how to get it.


Most Helpful Guy

  • First, screw the work/relationship nonsense. There's a difference between a career and a paycheck, one major distinction being paychecks are interchangeable, as long as they don't bounce. A great romance, by contrast, is unique.

    How to get it? The ancient ritual: drinks after work, dinner after drinks.

    After'll figure it out.

    • After dinner when going out to the car, just get in the back seat!

What Guys Said 2

  • You already stated you know this, but you should not be pursuing a colleague! Yes, I just had to say it. :P

    If you really want to pursue something invite him out after work. Start building a friendship outside of work and spending some alone time. A warning though; if he is hesitant to do anything with you outside of work just back off and drop it. You don't want to be the crazy co-worker that is seen as stalking him.

  • Relationships and work don't mix? That's exactly why they do mix! It's hot.

    As for how...? If you have to ask, then your prospects don't look too outstanding.


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