I'm really scared to do it. I just need the basics of how too. I don't think I even should
If anyones curious I called him right away & changed my answer. I said I wanted to wait. I really think it was the right decision. 14 is just too young. He still likes me, but now another problem does he just want the bj? Does this ever end? lol. Thanks!
Like pretty much everyone else said, no, you can't . But, you can get STD's, and plus it's just gross anyway . XP Why would you want that in your mouth, hon ?
If you don't think you should, then don't . You don't have to do something like that if you don't want to . It sounds to me like someone is telling you to do this, correct ? Or, do you feel out of place because you haven't done it ? Regardless, if you don't want to do it, you certainly don't have to . Not everyone in the world does it .
When you're ready for sex, you'll know it . But don't do anything sexual until you feel like it's really the right time . Don't give anything up to someone who doesn't deserve it . Wait for the one you'll love forever .
The only way that you're going to get pregnant is if the semen goes in or around your vagina. Sometimes happens during heavy petting, and is called a 'splash pregnancy'. Giving a bj won't allow the semen close to your vagina, so you should be okay.
Okay, now, that said, I must just say that if you're not COMPLETELY comfortable, don't have any sort of sexual relations with him. I personally say wait for a more stable relationship, like marriage, but that's what I'm doing anyway. I honestly don't think you should do anything as you're likely to regret it if you're unsure now.
No, you can't get pregnant by giving a bj. But if you don't think you should, then don't hun. Don't ever do something you're not comfortable with doing. If you aren't ready or you want to wait, then be honest with the guy. If he can't accept your wishes, then he's not the guy for you. Wait for a guy that wants you for WHO you are, not WHAT you have, or WHAT you'll do with him.
No you can't get pregnant. Don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If your not ready then be honest with him and if he can't accept it or understand then he is not worth it. Just be you. Don't ever feel like you have to do something you don't want to.