I'm a virgin and my boyfriend isn't.Well he wants to have sex,but says it'll be painful and messy for me,and he doesn't really wanna deal with that... Show More
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omg he is so freaking gay. seriously. don't try to hurt yourself for a gay boy. just cherish your virginity while your hymen is still intact. I personally (like most guys who aren't still in high school) would be totally amazed and honored if I were given the opportunity to be loved (and maybe even laid) by a girl cool enough to have saved herself for someone special. Tell him to have sex with his hymen-free hand.