I do it all the time. It's a speciality skill and one that few people do well. You have to be able to provide the illusion of loss of control while making sure she has a really good time. I strongly recommend the negotiation chapter in SM 101: a realistic introduction as a primer.
i have done that before it was f***ing insane I gave her a bruse on her butt from picking her up and putting her on my dresser but she landed on the corner she was a good sport to she didn't tell me until we were done
The majority of women I've been with like to dominate... sit on my face etc... I love it. It allows them to get exactly want they want and they tend to be very creative. It's a complete turn on for me.