Mine are long too, but I've come to accept myself for who I am and what I look like. People who say things like that are not the lovers for you! You need to learn to love and accept yourself for who you are and be with someone who loves that part of you, because it is your most intimate part. If a guy (or girl) doesn't accept your most intimate part of you, he/she does not accept you! Be with someone who will love and cherish you for who you are!