i guess you could say its kind of like sleep. its easier to fall asleep when your not trying to sleep (thinking about it too much). but..is this actually a problem, for girls or even myself and my health? i was at a strip club, one time and I had two girls giving me a private fully nude lap dance.... Show More
How come I can't get turned on when I want to be but..its easy when I don't want to be
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Sounds primarily psychological. You had some inhibitions or fears about embarrassment so you couldn't get fully aroused. Sometimes I wonder if I have a mental block with BJs. I love them. They feel great. But I can almost never orgasm from a BJ. Same thing if a girl is masturbating me. I can get off easy by myself, but not when a hot chick is stroking me, and often it is difficult to get off by masturbation in front of a woman also.