i guess you could say its kind of like sleep. its easier to fall asleep when your not trying to sleep (thinking about it too much). but..is this... Show More
How come I can't get turned on when I want to be but..its easy when I don't want to be
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Sounds primarily psychological. You had some inhibitions or fears about embarrassment so you couldn't get fully aroused. Sometimes I wonder if I have a mental block with BJs. I love them. They feel great. But I can almost never orgasm from a BJ. Same thing if a girl is masturbating me. I can get off easy by myself, but not when a hot chick is stroking me, and often it is difficult to get off by masturbation in front of a woman also.