If he's open in bed I would suggest you try stripping him down and blindfolding him(or not). This will make him focus exclusively on his senses. Do a mix of all of the above, touching, kissing, french kissing, feeling, licking, blowing your warm breath in his ear, talking dirty to him :) It's the anticipation that makes it so great. You should have no problem finding his special spots if you don't know already. Start at his ears and work down. We're not all the same, but I would guess his ears, neck, chest, center back, his sides(starting below the armpit and going to the butt) and all around the pubic area(inner/upper thigh, waist, balls) focusing last on the appendage.