i do kinky things but I have to admit its mostly for him. he is the kinky one and I will be kinky because I know he gets really turned on, and the thing I get off on most is knowing that he is really loving it, not so much that I'm turned on loads by kinky things. I could live without it to be perfectly honest. to answer what the things are: role plays and bondage type stuff. I'm sure there are very kinky women out their but personally inside I wish he wasn't so kinky - not that ill ever let on to him, I love him after all!