Oh, you totally can. But the mood has to be right, too. Well... yeah, I guess it totally depends on the situation/mood.
Tell her what you would like to do to her...talk dirty. I like to bent over his knees or a on a table with my a** up while he spanks and fingers me to an orgasm...I love dominance from a guy!(not all the time)
It's definitely possible to make a girl horny instantly. But lubrication usually takes a little while to happen. It's a slower process than getting an erection for guys. Sometimes no matter how turned on I am, it's a while before I get wet.
waht to say is not key , what kind of the girl is a problem.