i like touching his torso area, i.e. back, shoulders, stomach. I like when he slowly and gently runs his hands up and down the curve of my waist, and along my lower back. but no I don't force it cause it seems to happen naturally and doesn't need to be forced.
1)Everywhere! stroke his arms, neck, chest...depends on what we're doing I guess.
2) Nipples, hair, clit...mmmm
3) I talk and tell him what I want
I touch him all over his chest. If I'm on top my hands go through his hair. I love to touch his butt, penis and balls. I usually run my hand on his thighs and around his penis area. I love when he runs his finger up and down my vagina area from my clitoris to my vagina. Then he'll finger me going in deeper each time and playing with my boobs. If I really want to be touched there and vice versa, we'll take our hands and move them where we want to be touched.