Women just want a physical relationship, what the hell is wrong with women these days?

Am I the only guy that is seeing a trend where women just want to have a physical relationship and nothing else?

Sorry for posting this dumb question as I was angry and in this short period of time I grew to see some of my immaturity. I still have more to grow. Thank you for your answers.


Most Helpful Girl

  • Sooo.. most men bitch that women are too uppity and prude and play hard to get, etc. But once women start acting in a way that is seen as more masculine, and the way you say you want it, and then it's a horrible thing.

    Most women I know and have ever known DO want relationships. Maybe not ALL the time (everyone should experience life as a single adult) but everyone I know wants to end up in love. I personally have had trouble getting other women to understand my ability to discern sex from love and enjoy them as separate (but obviously complementary) entities. I'm often told that I'm like a guy. And seeing as I'm in a long term relationship that is okay emotionally but completely lacking in the bedroom and having no problem getting my needs fulfilled elsewhere makes me seem more like the idea of a guy. Now, just because right now I'm listening more to my sexuality than my heart right now, that doesn't mean I don't want to eventually settle down and be faithful- same thing for MANY men!

    • I'm not most men. The women in my age group(I am 40) are who I was referring to. They have been burned badly and are leery of getting serious and just want a f*** buddy.

    • Thank you for your honesty

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What Girls Said 9

  • You're probably going after the wrong women. Any time I date a guy it's in the hopes that it will turn into a relationship.

  • I want a real relationship. Not just have someone to have sex with.

    • I said most, not all. : D

    • Lol I know. I just wish I could find someone who doesn't just want sex but a true relationship.

    • QA and I are saying it's hard for relationship minded men, as well.

  • Actually I don't know a single girl who doesn't want to get married and have children someday, but

    many guys say they don't.

    I think women in general have become more picky about with whom they do that in the past decades

    • are you living in a commune or little house on the prairie? I have seen maybe 50 women on this site say they never want kids or never want marriage and I know of maybe 30 or 50 women and can name them that never want either(marriage or kids)

    • I live in a big city and I don't know one. Of course there are plenty that don't want it right now (including me). Some may just want hook ups for now, others want long term relationships only.And some are not quite sure. But the vast majority does want to get married and have children at one point.

      It might be an age thing, my friends are all from around 19 - 25. Considering your little older it might be that women your age feel different about this

  • I ask myself that everyday.

    Here is my story why I think guys only want sex from me. I can't speak for other girls.

    When ever since school guys would try to "take" what they wanted. For instance, boys would always try to lift my skirt or dry hump me, or even kiss me and I didn't like them or want to be touched, and a the nice guys always acted like they didn't like me, so overtime it just sort of developed into me thinking guys only wanting sex from me. I'm working on it.

  • ok..so they want sex? its their life...their wishes. they are not harming u. why are you getting so upset about what someone else is doing with their own lives?

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What Guys Said 5

  • We get to have them, they get to have them. I see no problem with this.

  • i like dis

  • dude you have posted like 3 of these questions... thanks for the 3 points.

    • i posted this same question only once before and that was last night. dryad had it removed because she reported it over and over with different accounts after she called my dead mother a slut

    • serves you right. +1

    • serves me right? explain please. if your mother dies then I should call her names?

  • You are not the only man who has observed this trend. Most women are sluts today. It's a shame.

  • thats why women are different then me, all we want is sex and all what women want is...well I wish I knew