My guy said that my "sh*t is up higher" than other girls he's been with. is this a bad thing that my hole is up higher or whatever? also I'm kinda starting for feel insecure about my vagina. I have big lips and a camel toe type vagina if that paints the picture? is this a turn off? does is also feel better when the legs are spread really far apart or do you guys like it better when we wrap our legs around you? any other tips would be great...thanks!
I'm not sure what he meant by it being 'up higher'.
Big lips are fine. If I could see camel toe when you were wearing leggings and we were a couple, I'd just get aroused.
Legs spread wide allows for deep penetration. Its good. TBH, legs wrapped around is pretty wide spread as well. Sensation wise, for me the best is when she's more pulled her knees towards her chest, but knees aren't super far apart - it gives the access to thrust deep, but its a little tighter.
If things are too tight for you, get your legs open, if you want more sensation, keep legs closer together.
I'm actually shocked he would compare your vaginas to other women he's been with. What a turn off. That's the last thing I'd want to be thinking of, him screwing other girls and comparing me. How would he feel if you said, "your penis is darker colored than most." or something like that. All it does is make the person feel insecure and then you automatically think of all the people they've screwed.