I'm wondering, if a guy is in a happy, healthy relationship, will he think of other girls while masturbating? Guys, have you ever been in a great relationship (where everything is met) but turn around and think of another girl, like Jessica Alba or something while masturbating? I'm just really curious about this. Thanks for any responses :)
sry redroan but most definitely. you see masturbation for a guy is time when he can pick any woman he wants, even if ur extremely hot, masturbating to the same person gets kinda old fast, that's why most guys move from woman to woman such as what their really into that day such as asian, latino, white, etc. I'm not tryin to be mean, but my point is that that's a guys alone time to fantasize about any chick. so you can see why he'd pick others while he can have you in real life ; )
Certainly. and if the girl is honest, so does she. Mostly when I masturbate, I think about my wife, sometimes I think about other people and sometimes I think about my wife and other people. When we are honest, we have to admit that we have a generalized sexual preference for our gender of interest. This doesn't change when we get in a relationship.
no, I really try to distract myself from thinking about my girlfriend when I'm masturbating, or try to create an environment made of porn and a whole hot thoughts and stories, but when I'm about to do it my thinking switches automatically to her, and I can't help it, she sits on the the top of every sexual fantasy I have.
Honestly, I don't want to think about my girlfriend while masturbating. It almost seems... disrespectful. I can think about other girls because I don't care about them, and don't care about respecting them.
My opinions are pretty weird, though. So it may be different for other guys.
Guys think about pretty much every attractive girl they've ever met during sex/oral sex/when they masturbate (including their girlfriends). Not the answer you wanted, but it's true. Men are way more visual than girls are and it's just an automatic reaction, they can't help it.