I cuddle with this guy at least a few times a week and we've done this for a couple of months. The cuddling consists of spooning, intertwining of legs, hand holding, rubbing each others backs, playing with my hair, hugging, etc. However, this guy hasn't really tried to make a move yet, not even a kiss. I think he may either be really innocent, not attracted to me like that, and possibly not into women. But the cuddling feels like more than just friends...any ideas? Guys what would it mean if you did this with a girl?
Maybe he doesn't want to date you or isn't interested in anything more than cuddling. I'll let certain girls go only so far just because I'm getting everything I want from them and don't want anymore. I don't go as far as cuddling, but do excessively flirt with a bunch of "inappropriate" touching just for sh*ts and giggles and don't really ever feel the need or want to take it further.
I had a guy that did this. We would cuddle and watch movies. He even stayed the night once in my bed (with nothing happening). Now we are dating :)
Some guys are just really shy. If you get a tad drunk or tipsy you can try to kiss him. Or just wait a bit for him to make a move. But it can't hurt if you try to kiss him. If you don't want to get drunk, just wait until its later at night and you are tired. You think about it less then. Or send him a text asking how he feels.