How and when should I tell a guy I don't want to have sex with him?
So this guy and I have been having a 'thing' for the past month. We're both in different colleges and not dating, but we do act like a couple. We hold hands publicly, kiss publicly, make out, cuddle and stuff but never had sex.
I feel like he's getting more and more passionate every time we kiss and he takes things one step further, slowly but surely. I'm pretty sure he expects us to have sex soon but the thing is, he's moving to another country for good after Christmas and I know we'll have no future.
We're not 'together', nor are we casually dating but we're pretty much exclusive since we only ever hang out with each other (only reason we're not dating is cause he has never asked me out on a date. We usually hang out in groups and then go home together, make out, sleep in the same bed and cuddle then have breakfast or lunch the next day). I don't want to have sex with him - ever - only because I KNOW it's a short-term relationship, plus we're not even dating. I wanna save that for my boyfriend or at least someone I know I have a future with. How and when do I say it to him if he has never brought the topic of sex up?
What's Your Opinion?