Some of you saw my "Do you think I am Unattractive?" question (Well it got removed). I mentioned rude things that had been said to me. Today I went to the mall and while I was walking out, I saw these guys sitting on their car about in their late teens, early 20s. I saw them in the row over from my...
Some of you saw my "Do you think I am Unattractive?" question (Well it got removed). I mentioned rude things that had been said to me. Today I went to the mall and while I was walking out, I saw these guys sitting on their car about in their late teens, early 20s. I saw them in the row over from my car, and a heavy set lady was walking and they started "Moo'ing" and laughing, saying appalling comments to her.
I've had rude things said to me also and some of you said that it was probably their pathetic way of saying they think you are attractive..
I'm not saying I haven't seen girls do this to guys. But lately, I've seen guys loose a lot of respect for women in their actions and comments. Yes their are girls who bring it upon themselves at times, but even so, I've been taught to respect a person no matter what because you don't know them or where they came from.
You must live in a town where the boys are not taught any manners. I once made fun of a fat kid when I was about 10 or 11 and my step mom let me have it and let me know how mean it was. She was right. There is nothing funny about being mean. People who say those kinds of things do it because they are some combination of mean, immature, self-conscious themselves and trying to elevate their own status by putting somebody else down, they think it will make them seem funny or cool, or they are masking something.
Next time you see or hear something like that you should ask them if they want people to think they are mean because that is how they are coming off. I think most people don't to be thought of as mean, even though lots of us do mean things from time to time.
there are many complex reasons, and it varies from situation to situation. The root is from personal gain. Whatever kid started mooing did it because he thought it would help his rep with his friend. When guys say mean things to attractive girls, it is usually because they are interested, but the girl isn't being entirely receptive, so they mask it in indifference to keep from getting hurt, the indifference just sometimes manifests as rude comments.
Just remember, when someone says something rude, it is always for personal gain, and while it may be hurtfull that they don't care about how it makes you feel, don't take it too personally, you are just another potential target, or someones crush, whichever it may be.
There are two main reasons why guys would do something like this... the first, like noregret11 says, is immaturity.
The second is why girls are so often confused by guys. It could be that the guy in question is attracted to the girl, like boys hitting girls they like in the playground because they don't understand their feelings.
i learned this the hard way, guys are usually rude to people because they are self conscious about their own selves and they think that by bashing on others and making them look bad, it raises their self worth. Boys are just jerks, but thankfully some are saved from the "Peter Pan Syndrome" and grow up.