Does my coworker like me?
I'm the receptionist/security officer for a company, and I have this coworker who always smiles at me and looks at me. One time he came up behind me and said "boo!" To get my attention, when I looked at him he asked how I was doing I told him good, and I asked him how he was, he responded good, just getting the checks, he got them and then he smiled at me saying see you later, another time he had me look something up for him, where he came and sat right by me on the counter, extremely close, so close I could feel his body heat, after I did that he said thanks and let me know if it doesn't work, another time he saw I had an item from a restaurant, he said it looks good and smiled then said he really likes the restaurant, then he walked away, most recently he asked me if I liked a musical artist, that was on the radio at the time, I told him I don't know that it was just on the radio, he laughed and said he really likes the artist.. Are these signs he likes me? Oh. Yeah he's also looked back at me and smiled while walking with his boss. I like him a lot I want to know if he likes me, also I work for the security company, not the same company he works for, we are a contracted service..
Now, how else how could I flirt back? He's sooo different then the guys I've had flirt with me, he's successful and schooled, and smooth lol, I'm new to the flirting thing though so I'm confused on what to do next
Lol well, being security, I'm stuck with wearing a uniform, complete with a tie, very professional looking you know, to the point where it doesn't accent any curves but that what they want, but yes I do wear glasses sometimes, and I have to wear my hair up
Also I have four cameras on me at all times so I have to be pretty careful and professional, well discreet, in saying that what now?
So how can I flirt with him discreetly?
Well he now is checking if I am okay up where I am posted at as well as actually listening to my story despite the act he is busy, when I radioed him to let him know that he had a call, he said go ahead then a second later in a more hushed tone
He said hon, at least that is what it sounded like, we have very clear radios, the whole time we were talking we had eye contact and he was leaning toward me
Today. Had to have him sign something and I commented on how he signed his name i told him it looked like a dr's signature and he laughed, smiled and said thanks for the compliment, I told him ur welcome, I then said at least no one can copy it,
And he said yeah, laughed and then he said the next time you call me dr and his last name I told him okay and he smiled, went into the warehouse,needless to say I didn't have to call him but I'd tell him bye dr, and he said he waited for me to call him
I told him I will on sat which is when I will see him next so what now? I like him soooo much
Well now he wants me to sing for him lol and to call him Dr more things have happened but its the same over and over
Well needless to say the guy never did anything to go forward, but my best friend did, I am happy to say as of 9/10/11 I am very happily married
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