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I'm an introvert.1
I'm an introvert.
In order to be happy, I need to converse with people whom I consider friends, or at least I can communicate well with. However, I prefer to avoid situations where the communication involves 5 or more people.
What am I then? An extrovert, because I need social contact, or an introvert, because I am not fond of groups?
By the way, I do not participate in social gatherings (drinking, partying etc) etc too often, and I don't really initiate in the real world to get to know more people randomly. So if you want, you could say I'm asocial.
And I personally HATE the current "accepted image" of society. Genderal roles, breaking apart people's individuality, and raising them to suppress their future abilities? Hell no! But I do abide laws and rules, but I really am against this forceful acceptance of an imperfect ideal. Am I antisocial then? I'm not sure myself.
I'm an annoying introvert.
You have the wrong definition of antisocial.
But anyway, I'm an introvert. My behavior is such even though I *occasionally* want to actually go out and be around people in a social scene. But I'm happiest and most productive when I'm alone. I have the best thoughts when I'm alone, I talk best (to myself) when I'm alone, and I need my alone time to recover from being around people too much.
Being extroverted and socializing is a lot like work to me. It doesn't come very naturally to me which makes it tough to learn. When I said my behavior is introverted, this is where I sort of clash with extroverts. I don't wear my emotions on my sleeve and I'm an observer before I'm a shooter. That's the funny thing- if I want, I could act extroverted. I also can understand extroverts, since I'm more of an observer and they are a lot easier to read than introverts. But the reverse isn't true, extroverts don't seem to be able to understand introverts too well. It's nice to have that kind of advantage, but it also sucks since most of the population doesn't understand you.
introverted...i hate when people call me antisocial...part of what it is is I would just rather listen than talk